Planks, Puke and Paint

We visited my sister and her family over the weekend. For the most part it was a great trip! First the good: planks! Lucas held captive his audience of cousins by showing off his new skills of sitting up, semi-crawling, and planking! He gets up on his hands and feet and stretches out his body like he's going to propel himself forward. He face-plants most of the time, but looks so cute doing it!

Now for the not so good: During our car ride up there Ryan said he had an "owie" and started whimpering a little bit. Call it Mommy intuition or something else, but I immediately knew he was going to throw up. I asked him if his tummy hurt and then he answered my question by throwing up. Uggg. I was afraid he had caught the stomach flu that is going around, but after cleaning  him off and giving him crackers, we determined he was just carsick. Any tips for helping carsick kids? This happened a couple months ago and I really don't want it to become a regular occurrence.

But Ryan wasn't done making messes. The next day, about an hour before we were going to leave my sister's house to come home, Ryan got into a can of dark green paint and dumped it on my sister's nice light carpeting. I had been out to lunch with my sister and we had left the men in charge of the 7 kids. We arrived home to find a naked Ryan crying in the shower and Adam and my nephew Josh frantically cleaning the carpet.  Thankfully they got most of the stain out and it's funny to think about now, but I felt so bad for my sister and her new house!

Christmas Catchup

Christmas 2012 was really wonderful here at the Nullmeyer household. We were truly blessed with quality time with family, generous gifts, and sweet memories. Ryan was really excited this year to open presents from Santa (a new word he started saying this week!). He was so excited that he couldn't help himself from ripping open a few of our presents as well.

 Lucas preferred to chew on his wrapped presents.

 We spent a lazy day at home with Adam's Mom that included stockings, breakfast........

 and putting together a new tool bench in our underwear.

Later in the day we went to my parents' house and enjoyed a prime rib dinner with them. Adam is on vacation until the new year, so we are enjoying lots of time with Daddy. Today we took down our (dead) Christmas tree and BBQ'd dinner on Adam's brand new BBQ. (That I helped him build !)

I am so excited to be blogging on my brand new laptop. It is amazing to have a computer that actually works! Unfortunately, my camera stopped working on Christmas morning. So although I can blog and upload pictures now, I can't actually take pictures with my camera! One of these days technology will be my friend.

Giving Thanks During The Never Ending Virus

We've all been sick since last week and it feels like we're never going to get better! This virus is very slow moving and it's taking a lot longer to bounce back than usual. It started with Ryan and then spread to the rest of us.

Ryan is almost symptom-free at this point, with the exception of some congestion and a cough. But oh boy, is he cranky! I can tell he's still not feeling well because he wants me to hold him a lot during the day and he has a major meltdown over every little small thing. Oh wait, is that just what 2.5 year olds do?

Lucas is living up to the nickname Daddy gave him when he was born.....Pukus Mucus Lucas. Poor guy, that's such a terrible nickname! But unfortunately it's true....he has had major mucus spilling out of him since last Friday, and he has coughed/gagged so hard that he's thrown up.

I thought I had the easiest version of the cold until a few days ago. I got the sore throat, congestion and pinkeye, but then started feeling even worse a few days ago. I am now on inhalers for my cough, and Robitussin taken at night is thankfully helping a little bit. But now my glands are so swollen I can barely swallow food.

Adam had all the same symptoms as me, except for the pinkeye. But guess what happened in the middle of last night for him? Green eye discharge! Seriously, it feels like the virus that just keeps giving

As difficult as it is to be sick while taking care of sick kids, I do know how blessed I am. I read recently that the feeling of joy begins with the act of thanksgiving, no matter the circumstances. There are so many things to give thanks to God for. No ER trip for this sickness, the help of my Mom who got sick herself from being around us, Adam is off from work for the next 10 days, generally healthy kids, and the fact that we should be better by Christmas! We have so much to be thankful for.

Weighty Wednesday: Cold Loss

I feel like I should start this post by saying that I'm eating a mug of ice cream as I type. Bryer's Vanilla with some maple syrup drizzled on top. Yum.

But you know what? I deserve it. We've had a week of sickness around here, so my food intake hasn't been quite as high as usual. I guess that's why I lost a little over a pound this week. Nothing like a good cold to help lose weight.

Week 25
Lbs Lost So Far: 22
Lbs Left to Lose: 3 

Moving Along

My computer no longer allows me to view or upload photos, so you'll just have to squint really hard and imagine a cute picture right about here. It's one of Lucas, sitting up all by himself. Do you have the image in your head? Ok, keep reading.

When Lucas turned 6 months old, he was rolling over really well but that was about it in terms of gross motor skills. But then all of a sudden, in the span of one week, Lucas has started doing the following:

~Scooting (backwards and forwards)
~Getting up on hands and knees and rocking back and forth
~Sitting up for longer periods of time by himself
~Once pulled himself up into a standing position from sitting on a chair

Whoa whoa whoa! Slow down there little guy.

Sleep Training

I never knew you had to teach a baby how to sleep. I suppose there are some babies out there who just instinctually know how to fall asleep and stay asleep for a decent amount of time. My babies do not fall into that category.

So when I began to notice that Lucas was developing the same habits as Ryan did at this age (wouldn't fall asleep unless nursed/rocked/bounced for hours on end and then would immediately wake up if moved, oh and barely napped during the day.....and used me as a human pacifier off and on all night) I know I needed to do some sleep training. In preparation I read "The Baby Whisperer Solves All Your Sleep Problems" and "Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child".

I decided to use the Cry It Out method with Lucas. I considered doing the more gentle method of going in to soothe after 1 minute, then after being away 2 minutes, then 3, etc. But I had tried this once and it only seemed to make things worse.

So last week I went full speed ahead with Cry It Out, starting with his morning nap around 9am. To be honest, I expected it to go horribly. Lucas cried for 56 minutes. Another 4 minutes and I probably would have gone into his room. He then napped for 30 minutes. That afternoon I put him down and he cried for 14 minutes, followed by a 30 minute nap. This gave me hope!  The following night I tried it for bedtime. I nursed Lucas in the rocking chair and then put him down, walked away, and shut the door. He cried for 59 minutes. It was so hard to listen to! But I was shocked that he actually fell asleep, since that never really happened for Ryan. I expected the crying to last at least two hours. After crying for the 59 minutes, Lucas slept for 6 hours in his crib. I was absolutely in shock. The longest he has slept consecutively since birth was about 4 or 5 hours in bed with me. Could this really work?

On night number 2 Lucas cried for 40 minutes. When he woke up only 45 minutes later I anxiously watched him on the monitor to see what would happened. He fussed around for a minute and then fell back to sleep. I'm pretty sure I could hear angels rejoicing with me at this point. A child of mine was capable of putting himself to sleep? Lucas woke up a few more times that evening but slept in his crib for 6 hours before I went in and got him.

Sunday night was the best so far. 5 minutes of crying followed by a 7 hour stretch of sleep. Talk about huge improvement over such a short period of time!

And last night, when Ryan was up puking and I really really needed Lucas to stay in his crib, guess what he did for the first time? Spent the entire night in his crib! He slept from 8pm until 3am. I went in and nursed him and put him back in his crib. He then slept until 7:30am! Praise God.

I know there will be setbacks, but I am hopeful that Lucas is learning good sleep habits now and will be a better sleeper than his brother.

***This blog post was made possible by Lucas' 1 hour and 45 minute morning nap in his crib. Can I get an Amen?***

Weighty Wednesday: Over It

I am so tired of this whole weight loss thing. To be honest, I haven't been putting much effort into eating healthier. I've been eating dessert every day because, well....yummy food is everywhere this time of year! I guess it doesn't help that I like to bake homemade treats and then consume them. (Homemade peppermint bark, anyone?)

Week 24
Lbs Lost So Far: 21
Lbs Left to Lose: 4

Goals: I lost one pound over the past two weeks, which means only two pounds lost this past month. My goal is to lose 1 pound per week for the next month until I reach my goal.

Swing Twins

Same outfit and everything! Can you tell who is who?

Cutie Shoes

Ryan got his first pair of rain boots last week and he is officially obsessed with them.

He wakes up and asks me where his new shoes are.

"New shoes Mommy?", asked with a tilt of his head.

He stomps in puddles with them. He kicks his feet back and forth in them underneath the table while eating lunch. He wears them to the park. But then grudgingly lets me swap them for his regular shoes when he realizes he can't run and climb too well in his boots.

It's incredibly cute.

Speaking of shoes, Ryan said something funny the other day. We were at the grocery store. Ryan had kicked off his shoes, as he always does when at the store. Only this time I failed to notice. Partway through the store an employee came up to me holding Ryan's shoes. It seems a certain little toddler had left his shoes in the produce department. I thanked the man and told Ryan to stop kicking off his shoes.

He looked at me with his serious little face and said "People take my shoes".

Man I love that kid.

Lucas: 6 Months

Dear Lucas, you are half a year old!

This past month for you was all about grabbing at things and putting them in your mouth. You want to touch and taste everything single thing. Probably because you got your first tooth this month! One of your bottom front teeth sprouted through, and the one next to it will likely cut through soon.

And speaking of teeth, I've finally figured out why your tongue is constantly hanging out of your mouth. It's because you're feeling your new tooth! Seriously, your tongue is never inside your mouth.

Never.

You cried a lot less this month. As long as you are well-rested and being held a lot by Mommy, you are a very happy little boy. You willingly smile at anyone and love when we play games with you like peek-a-boo, tickling, and making funny faces in the mirror. But if you're tired? Oh man, you sure can cry.

I'm trying something new this week in order to teach you some good sleeping habits. I will blog about it in a separate post. Prior to this week you were still sleeping in bed with me for most of the night, waking up every couple hours to nurse. But I am hopeful this will soon change!

You continued to try new foods this month, including pears, squash, sweet potatoes, oatmeal, peaches and beef. You enjoy eating solid foods, although you aren't a huge fan of sitting in the high chair yet. You do love eating bananas inside of a mesh feeder. It's messy but really fun for you! I still nurse you around 5 times per day and I really cherish these times with you because I know you will soon be a big boy eating meals at the table with your brother.

You are growing up so fast. I know it sounds cliche, but the time really is flying by with you. It seems like you were just born, but now here you are, rolling all over the place, weighing over 16 and a half pounds, and laughing at your big brother's antics. It seems like any day now you will stand up and take off running after Ryan.

 Slow down sweet baby Lucas!

Love, Mommy

6-Month Dr. Visit

Lucas turned 6 months yesterday. I haven't posted my usual update about him because I can't upload pictures to my "safe-mode" computer. I bet you can all guess what I'd like for Christmas! I also haven't been able to post because, well, things are a little nuts around here in the evenings and I no longer have a spare minute to myself. That will hopefully change soon. More on that later.

So Lucas had his check-up yesterday and all was well with him. He was all smiles for the doctor and nurses. Here are his 6-month growth stats:

Weight: 16 lbs, 11 oz (35%)
Height: 26.5 inches (45%)
Head: 17.25 inches (63%)

Ryan's growth stats at 6 months of age were exactly the same, with the exception of his weight being 1 oz less. Isn't that crazy how similar they are? Lucas' growth has definitely slowed down a bit, even though he's eating solid foods now. I've been giving him solids once or twice a day, but now that he's 6 months old I'm going to increase it to about 3 times per day, with the addition of meats and combined foods. This morning he had peach rice pudding for breakfast!

Lucas got 3 vaccinations as well as a flu shot yesterday. He cried briefly and then seemed fine all day (except for the fact that he only napped 20 minutes yesterday!). But then last night he was fussy and really warm. Poor little baby, I hate those shots!

I talked to the Dr. in length about Lucas' poor sleeping habits and how they are alarmingly similar to Ryan's at this age. We're going to start letting him cry himself to sleep later this week. I am both excited about it and dreading it at the same time. I will update on our progress next week.

All in One

My past two weeks, all in one post!

~Our computer stopped working again, hence the lack of blog posting. It's kind of working now, so I'm crossing my fingers that it doesn't die again!

~Ryan got sick the weekend before Thanksgiving. Then Lucas, me, and Adam. Then Ryan's fever got really high and he started throwing up, and he wouldn't take any medicine or eat or drink anything.....so we took him to the ER and they gave him fluids and medicine. Now 10 days later we are all still congested and coughing. It's the never-ending cold!

~Our Thanksgiving was fun, despite the fact that we were all sick. My sister and her family came to visit. Have I mentioned that she is pregnant with #6? We are so excited! (Baby is due exactly on Ryan's 3rd birthday)

~I have lost one more pound over the past 2 weeks. This means I have now lost all 49 pounds gained while pregnant with Lucas. I'd still like to lose 5 more before the end of the year. Can I do it?

~We made our annual trek to the Santa Cruz Mountains for our Christmas tree. My 14 year old nephew Josh cut down our tree this year since Adam was at work.

~Lucas has been a night owl ever since getting sick. The night before Thanksgiving he and I were up until 4:30am. Just, you know, hanging out. He's pretty happy and awake during the day, and surprisingly, so am I. Despite my serious lack of sleep lately I haven't felt too sleepy during the day. God gives us strength when we need it!

Rainy Hat Day

It's a rainy hat kind of day around here.

Pa and Ama

My parents are great parents. They are also really great grandparents! Ryan calls my Dad "Pa", and my Mom "Ama".

They both do so many amazing things for their grandsons, which in turn is a huge help to me. It could be taking Lucas for a walk, trying to come up with a healthy snack for Ryan, watching one in the evening while I give the other a bath, playing outside with Ryan, holding Lucas so I can take a shower or do the dishes, playing cars with Ryan, rocking Lucas to sleep.....the list goes on and on. Thank you Ama and Pa. We love you and appreciate you so much!

Weighty Wednesday: Sugar Drop

I did pretty well this week with giving up sugar! I had a couple slip-ups. One was a vanilla milkshake, which I would definitely count as a dessert. Oops! Another was the maple syrup I put on my waffle while staying at a hotel over the weekend. Oops again! But other than that, my sugar intake was drastically reduced this week, and perhaps that helped with my 1 pound weight loss.

Week 20
Lbs Lost So Far: 19
Lbs Left to Lose: 6

Goals: I'd like to start toning up a little bit. I am going to start doing crunches and some other stomach and lower body exercises whenever I can find the time. Any tips on what helps to flatten a post-baby stomach?

Double Bubbles

Our first attempt at co-bathing. Both boys loved it!

123's and D's

Living with Ryan is sometimes like riding a rollercoaster. Lots of highs and lows. One minute I am yelling at him to stop being so naughty, and the next he is kissing me and saying cute things.

There has been a lot of counting to 3 lately, and I'm the one doing the counting. When Ryan is being really naughty, he runs away from me when I catch him or tell him to stop. Rather than chase him around the house, I have started threatening him by counting to 3. For example, I'll say "Ryan stop that". If he doesn't stop doing the the naughty thing, I'll say "I'm going to count to 3. If you do not stop you are going into a time out. 1......2......"

And what do you know? I've never gotten all the way to 3. There's something about the counting that is temporarily working. If and when I ever do get to 3, I will be sure to follow through with the consequence, so he knows it isn't a game. What is it about counting that gets kids to do what you ask?

On the opposite end of the spectrum is Ryan being really sweet and funny. The age he is at right now is run because not only can he say more words, but he has also developed a silly sense of humor. When you combine those two, it makes for some really cute conversations. This was us earlier tonight: (I have to preface this by saying that Ryan's word for cookie is "D".

Me: "Ryan, I really want a cookie. Can you go get me one?" (I gave up sugar this week and I was having a serious craving for something sweet!)

Ryan: "Otay". (He goes into the kitchen and looks around.)

Ryan: (Runs back to me.) "D no home!!"

Me: "Oh no! Where are the cookies?"

Ryan: "D bye-bye" (Said with a sad face)

Me: "Well can you go find them for me?"

Ryan: (Proceeds to run around the house yelling in a sing-song voice) "Oh DEEEE! Oh DEEE!"

See what I mean? So cute! And oh man, I need to trim his bangs.

Wuv You

I had a couple of days this week that were a bit more challenging than usual.

Adam left for work Tuesday morning at 6am and didn't get home until 9:30pm. I sure do appreciate how hard he works, but long days like that are hard on the Mom too! By late afternoon I run out of ways to keep Ryan happy and entertained.

Then on Wednesday morning Ryan threw up in the car, all over himself and his car seat. Thankfully he seems okay (I think he was carsick) but oh boy was it a mess to clean up.

But guess what happened in between those two rough days? Tuesday night I lay down in Ryan's bed to try to put him to sleep. I said " I Love You Ryan", like I do every night, not expecting a response from him.

Then, for the first time ever, Ryan replied "Wuv You Mama".

Yep, that pretty much made my week.

Weighty Wednesday: The Good and the Bad

I remember back to when I used to breastfeed Ryan and I was trying to lose weight.  Most of the time my hunger level would be normal, but every once in a while it would just be out of control. This was one of those weeks. I wanted to eat all day long. I'd finish dinner and be hungry again an hour later. I'd eat a huge breakfast and feel shaky from hungry by 10am. So I obviously ate a lot this week. Not surprisingly, my weight didn't drop.

Now on to the good news: I can now fit into my smallest pair of jeans! These are the ones I was wearing before getting pregnant, and they are the smallest size I have worn in a really long time. Now, they don't necessarily fit really well. They button and I can breathe in them, but they did leave a few red marks on my tummy by the end of the day. It's funny that I am only 2 pounds away from my pre-pregnancy weight, and yet my body is still kind of rearranged. My tummy still has a bit of a pooch like I'm a couple months pregnant.

The other good news from the week is that I went out for a jog on Saturday! I expected to go a few blocks and then collapse from weak, unconditioned lungs. But I actually lasted about half a mile before my lungs really started to hurt and I had to slow down to a walk. I want to try it again soon!

Week 19
Lbs Lost So Far: 18
Lbs Left to Lose: 7

Goals: No sugar or dessert whatsoever.

Grateful

2 things I am thankful for today. (Besides the 2 most obvious ones)

1) It is November and my toddler is wearing shorts today. Seriously, we are so blessed with this weather. Another trip to the park is on the agenda!

2) I still keep the bassinet next to my side of the bed, despite the fact that Lucas hasn't slept in it in months. Last night Lucas dove out of bed in the middle of the night and landed head first in his bassinet. I knew there was a reason I was keeping it there!

Lucas: 5 Months

Happy 5 months my sweet boy Lucas!

You are now eating "solids" once a day and you love it! You have tried rice cereal, avocado, banana, peas, carrots and apples (literally....you love to suck on my apples after I eat them). Rice cereal and apples are your favorites so far. You made a bad face both times I offered you peas. Personally, I don't blame you!

You are not much of a mover. You can easily roll from tummy to back, but then you just start crying. You don't really try to roll back the other way, although I bet you could if you really tried. You are most happy when being held.

You still smile easily at people, as long as you are in a good mood. Someone even commented to me recently that you seem much more personable than your serious older brother was/is, and I have to agree. Despite your smiles, you are still pretty sensitive. A loud noise or a dropped toy can really set you off and make you scream in no time flat.

No teeth yet, although we can see a couple spots on your gums where a tiny white dot is poking through. It almost looks like you may get your canine teeth before your front teeth. You drool constantly and gnaw on anything you can get your hands on. You grab at everything and put it straight in your mouth. And then get upset when it doesn't ease your pain. Poor guy! You even started chewing on your tongue this week. A built-in teething toy, I guess?

You weigh about 16 pounds now. You have the chubbiest thighs and the cutest double chin. I think you will be bigger than your big brother someday!

Your sleep habits this month went downhill. You have a hard time falling asleep and staying asleep. A typical day of naps might consist of 3 30-minute naps. I still swaddle and nurse you to sleep at night in your crib but you are always awake again within the hour. You then sleep in our bed every single night from about 11pm until 7am, waking every couple hours.

 I love you Lucas!